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Let them game!
This lockdown sort of caught us between places. We had just rented a house in the UK, and brought over some of our belongings. We were...
Apr 9, 20203 min read
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Why lockdown is a little like childbirth
The birth of my first child was much harder than I'd expected it to be. I was ready for pain, but was also pretty confident that I'd be...
Apr 6, 20205 min read
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Things I've learned about working at home with children
If you're one of the millions of parents who has suddenly found themselves working from home at the same time as caring for their...
Apr 3, 20205 min read
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What did we do today?
Well, so far we're doing pretty well during lockdown. Everyone is missing aspects of normal life, but there are some entertaining new...
Mar 30, 20203 min read
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Time to be, not time to do
As we all hunker down in our homes, almost certainly with some fear and anxiety about our personal situations and the world around us,...
Mar 27, 20206 min read
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Is anybody listening?
Over the last year, I've had the beautiful experience of being part of a listening circle. As myself and my fellow circle members became...
Feb 20, 20205 min read
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A new vision
A friend shared this blog post with me the other day. I always enjoy reading Peter Gray, and here he puts into eloquent words something...
Jan 5, 20202 min read
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Learning to read #3
It's been just a couple of months since my first post about C learning to read by herself. Just like with our sons, I am in awe of her...
Dec 15, 20192 min read
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Real world learning
Nothing beats real life as learning territory. Not only is it filled with infinite possibilities, but it is inherently meaningful; we...
Dec 6, 20195 min read
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Learning is quiet and inevitable
As I wander ever deeper into life without school, certain ideas are becoming more and more alien to me, to the point that I can no longer...
Nov 20, 20192 min read
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Learning to read #2
This series of posts follows my seven-year-old daughter as she learns to read. C has created a beautiful world in Minecraft with a pet...
Oct 29, 20193 min read
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When it's time to back off..
One of the things that still challenges me is sitting back when I think I know a way to help, even when my 'help' has already been...
Oct 15, 20193 min read
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Nothing radical here
In the early days, when I would quietly admit that our children weren't at school, people would tell me that was radical. And I would...
Oct 9, 20193 min read
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Learning to read #1
These learning-to-read posts are really for any parents out there struggling with the idea that children can learn to read by themselves,...
Oct 1, 20192 min read
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Back to school
I never particularly loved school, but I always looked forward to that start-again September energy. I liked to see my school uniform all...
Sep 26, 20193 min read
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What did we do today?
There's a lovely energy in the air today. Maybe it's the cooler almost-autumn air that feels so good, or perhaps it's because their dad...
Sep 26, 20194 min read
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Five minutes of equations
Here's one of the many reasons I love unschooling. Most children don't naturally associate equations with fun, but this was quite a...
Sep 24, 20191 min read
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Holding the space
I often find myself thinking about childbirth when I consider the nature of unschooling. For the last 11 years, I've given prenatal...
Jul 29, 20196 min read
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How do they know that?
We had a friend to stay recently. As we were cooking together in the kitchen, D (13) and E (11) were chatting with us. The conversation...
Jun 20, 20194 min read
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Mi Buenos Aires Querido
We're a long way from our hill right now. All the way across the Atlantic in Buenos Aires, here to celebrate Mariano's mother's 90th...
May 9, 20194 min read
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